In dating violence, one partner tries to maintain power and control over the other through abuse.

Teen dating violence is influenced by how teenagers look at themselves and others. Because teenagers are typically inexperienced with relationships, have “romantic” views of love, and seek independence from parents, dating violence often remains hidden.

Statistics show that one in three adolescents in the U.S. has experienced some type of violence in a dating relationship. In order to build better relationships, young adults need to be educated on domestic and dating violence, understand that they have choices and believe they are valuable people who deserve to be treated with respect.

Young Men May Believe:

• They have the right to “control” their female partners in any way necessary.
• They should demand intimacy.
• They may lose respect if they are attentive and supportive toward their girlfriends.

Young Women May Believe:

• They are responsible for solving problems in their relationships.
• Their boyfriend’s jealousy, possessiveness and even physical abuse, is “romantic.”
• There is no one to ask for help.

Common Signs of Dating Violence:

• Physical signs of injury.
• Dropping out of school.
• Failing grades.
• Indecision.
• Changes in mood or personality.
• Use of drugs/alcohol.
• Pregnancy.
• Emotional outbursts.
• Suicidal thoughts.
• Isolation.

Learn More:
Dating Power and Control Wheel – This visual tool is targeted towards teens and highlights the main branches of sexual, physical, verbal, and emotional abuse. It focuses on the two roots of domestic violence: power and control, to explain how to identify these types of behavior.